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[quote=Anonymous]Early in my career I had a boss who was a perfectly nice guy and a great boss, but appearance-wise was a pretty standard middle-aged married overweight dad. I’ve never been attracted to older men, much less schlubby married ones, but for reasons I still can’t figure out to this day there was a weird sexual tension between us. I would secretly be so excited when we occasionally had client on-sites where the rest of the team couldn’t make it. (These were always day trips, so it wasn’t shady.)  Of course neither of us ever acted on it and I moved on to a different company and we lost touch. Since then I’ve had many older married bosses who were objectively much more attractive but I never had a crush on any of them, so I don’t think it was the power dynamic that I found sexy. And I’ve been happily married for 10 years to a guy who has nothing in common at all with old boss. I don’t think the mystery of why I found this one schlubby dad so strangely attractive will ever be solved! Anyone else ever have a weird inexplicable attraction to someone that made no sense? Did you ever pinpoint the reason why??[/quote]

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