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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is dad involved in the child’s mental health counseling? Maybe the counselor can work with dad and kid to find ways to make time at dads better? In elementary a court is highly unlikely to take a kids custody/visitation wishes seriously. You’re much better off working with dad to find ways to make the visits and transitions easier for the child - unless there is reason to believe that there is real abuse going on and then you need a lawyer. [/quote] I tried with dad, it's impossible. Dad assumes he does no wrong, I'm exaggerating/lying/etc. It's part of a bigger pattern of emotional abuse that plagued our marriage. I've resigned myself to the fact that all ill in the world is my fault. No, I didn't cheat. He did. And I just cannot keep fighting anymore. The counselor is aware and has been working with dad. I pay for it, too. For the above PP who assumes the money flows in from dad and I'm mean mommy wanting to take away visitation. I don't make more money, either. I just prefer my DC goes to therapy and gets the help they need vs. arguing with dad about funding it. [/quote]
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