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[quote=Anonymous]I'm getting married in August. My fiance and I wanted to do a ceremony with immediate family only, but we are close with our aunts and uncles and they expressed wishes that we include them if at all possible. I'm wracked with the stress of people talking about me like you talk about your cousin, but we are having a gathering of 50 people with strict limitations in place (masks required, drinks will come to the table instead of people walking up to the bar, no passed appetizers, etc). Just because they are having a wedding doesn't mean this is a wedding of 150 people that would have happened last year with sweaty bodies all over the dance floor, and it doesn't mean that they value their "big day" (kind, non-judgmental use of quotes from your post) over the lives of their families. It seems like the best thing you could do would be to send your regrets and support instead of showing up and side-eyeing all that do participate in the ceremony.[/quote]
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