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[quote=Anonymous]I would start casually asking some questions about his long-term plans for where he would want to live.  Does he envision living in this group housing situation for the rest of his life?  Does he see it as a way to get on the path to homeownership and just as a sort of interim thing?  I would ask him generally speaking like, "Do you think you'd still be happy living in a group house if you were married and had kids of your own?"  His answers to that may help inform what you do next.

Anecdote: I bought my house from a guy who originally had bought it with a male friend of his.  They both lived in the house for a few years, until the guy bought out his friend and moved his girl friend in.  They got married and had kids and lived in the house just as a family.  I wonder if your bf may plan to do something similar?

You don't know unless you ask - but try not to make it come across as an ultimatum - more just a curiosity about what sort of lifestyle he wants to live in a few years once married (to whomever).[/quote]

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