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[quote=Anonymous]I think you need the help of a behavioral therapist, and the medication angle, possibly. Also, very clear guidelines, written out, about behavior rules and consequences. Refusing to engage in discussion about said rules and consequences is important, because it gives the kid false hope that they might win the argument. Repeating over and over that the adults are in charge. Trying to wait until everyone is calm to discuss the issue and giving everyone a cool down space. Trying to spend time truly connecting with the child with a preferred activity to build the relationship. It can be very hard to remain calm with a kid that is pushing your buttons and testing limits. If you can, switch off with another adult. Get yourself a support group. Seek respite care however you can, through family members or agencies. Good luck. [/quote]
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