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[quote=Anonymous]Married 5 and half years to a multi millionaire. When we got engaged I was very aware there would be a prenup. He actually talked to me about it in length at dinner one night and explained the details that would be in it. How fair it would be and how it would be on a sliding scale and the longer we were married the more I would get and how things purchased after marriage would be considered joint marital property blah blah blah. So I mentioned to him several times during the engagement period to get me the prenup so that I would have time to thoroughly understand it and go over with my attorney. He kept making excuses that his attorney was very busy etc.. A year later, two weeks prior to wedding day he finally presents me with it. The pressure and intimidation to sign this “fair” piece of garbage was so intense that our wedding day was literally ruined because of the emotional roller coaster and sick feelings I still harbored. The prenup is extremely lopsided of course in his favor where I wouldn’t even be able to afford a home except for maybe a trailer. He even put a clause where if I have an affair I get nada. When I asked for the same clause in my favor he said No. The part that really upset me was where even after being married 20+ yrs the max payout was only enough for me to buy maybe a double wide. And as far as any purchases after marriage being joint marital property it clearly states that there will be no joint property ever! The only reason I’ve considered a divorce is because he uses this prenup as a weapon against me and with the few disagreements we’ve had, with absolutely no warning he literally will not come home for days, will not take my calls, threatens me with divorce and shuts down my credit cards. I know one day I’m going to snap and tell him you got it! Does this prenup sound contestable?[/quote]
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