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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oh man. First off, I have yet to have a friend tell me their parent wanted help. Mine were a nightmare. Hire a case manager-if you can find a good one, from a nursing agency. Let them do the sweet talking about care with the elderly person. A good ones knows how to talk to them in a way to get things moving. Expect resistance. You want to basically get someone in the door and gradually increase. [b]There are therapists who work with this stuff. Boundaries are so key and he needs to care about the nuclear family.[/b] Guilt and all those things come into play, but the nuclear family's needs must come first. [/quote] I'd get a counseling appmt for you for strategies to talk to your husband about this.[/quote]
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