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[quote=Anonymous]In your circumstances I think I would be feeling the same but I think there is some misunderstanding here about marriage and there seems to be something important missing here. First of all. When you marry, your family becomes his and his family becomes yours. So when you visit, you all visit your family everyone goes most of the time or at least that is my understanding. Maybe DH doesn’t have this picture. Not sure exactly how the marriage took place but there is usually a ceremony which sort of puts all that in place. But maybe there needs to be some clarification and understanding about this. Don’t personally know of any good resources but I have two suggestions. One is to read the book Ready to Wed, even though it is after the fact it is an eye opener for marriage relationships. Second, here is a number-855 382 5433- you can call that also might have resources as well as names of counselors, should you feel this might help. I personally think it might. Next point, I think you may need to learn to be a family. You seem to be missing out on the blessings of the family relationship. Your children need this. Your husband also may be having difficulty changing his picture of self from single to married with children. He might need some help in this and your family will be the beneficiary. There are good things ahead if both of you can get on the same page. I am praying for you to discover and live out the fullness of the blessing of marriage and family. You all deserve this. God bless you.[/quote]
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