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[quote=Anonymous]Hell no.

My MIL recently tried to do the same thing. DH has been really upset about it and does not want her to come. He is way more cautious about COVID than me so he has been even more against her coming than I have been. On the phone he told her he was not comfortable with her coming. She then proceeded to go through her twisting and manipulative dance so even though he never said yes I can totally see how she was changing it to there are just little differences in opinion, lets book it because things might change and we'll all be careful. DH was upset but his mother works him over so I spoke up. I told her that she is an adult and free to make her own decisions. She liked this a lot. I then added that both I and DH were also adults and would be making decisions for our family. I told her that in no uncertain terms would I expose my husband and children to this virus because she was reckless. I told her that what she was trying to do was selfish and reckless and that she should take it somewhere else because she would not get through the door here. It worked and she stopped BUT it took going to that level. DH was relieved. [/quote]

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