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[quote=Anonymous]Op having by a baby (congrats!) is going to rock your world for a while. Having a dh in academia who can pitch in that first year will turn out to be very valuable, and important for him to bond with his child early on. Either way, stop stressing and enjoy this time, it’s once in a lifetime. Scope out local parks and playgrounds. Figure out your childcare strategy. After a couple years you guys can talk about making changes. Many couples find a 5-7 year switching of career priority vs childcare duty is fair. You are very ambitious, maybe more than your spouse. But there are other factors than salary that matter a lot once you have kids. Like free college tuition and good benefits. [/quote]
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