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[quote=Anonymous]I understand where you are coming from, OP.  If this was really his dream, then you would follow him.  But he doesn't seem to know what he wants, and he really isn't considering you at all when making his plans for the future.

Worst case scenario:  
You guys divorce.  You want to leave small college town and pursue your career.  He tells you that if you leave, then he will get primary custody of the child because YOU moved away.

Best case scenario:
You guys figure this out together, and make a plan that involves both of you pursuing your interests and taking care of your child.

Personally, I think that you should move for your own career, and let him follow or not.  If he chooses not to follow, then that's on him.  Hopefully, during the course of you making plans to leave, he will actually come to his senses and have a real conversation about how you can both make this work.  If not, then at least you have the job you want, live in the city you want to live in, and have your child.  
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