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No it is not inconsiderate of you! We go on walks as well and while we do coordinate briefly beforehand, it doesn't look like that. He might tell me sometimes he needs 30 minutes to wrap things up, or just let him grab a snack first,  or whatever. Sometimes I'm truly on a tight schedule and can't wait so we'll just make plans for the next day instead. I'd be shocked if he got upset like that though.

I say this with 100% care and as gently as I can, because I have so been there and it's so painful. He doesn't want to be around you. Has it been like this for awhile? [/quote]

OP here. Yep. He doesn't really want to be around me or engage with me :\.[/quote]

You need to do a 180.  Don’t engage with him beyond brief polite pleasantries and neutral dinner conversation if you eat together.  Other than that, make your own plans with friends or by yourself and don’t bother to include him.  You are begging and it makes you even more unattractive.  Either the 180 will give him the space to decide on his own if he wants to spend time with you or it will prepare you for divorce by building your social network.

I’m sure you are a fine person; it’s not your fault he is behaving like a jerk, but it’s also not something you can fix.[/quote]

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