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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Meh--I totally get it. Since this is an anonymous forum I'll post what I did even though I've kept it pretty secret from others to avoid the shaming. We had our parents come and visit. They really really wanted to. We all knew the risks (they are elderly and like most people not in perfect health). But we also knew the benefits (my dad is deeply struggling with depression and was worried that he may never see the grandkids again which could be true). It was wonderful. Luckily no one got sick. We didn't take any precautions when we were together. We'd all been pretty strict other than grocery runs with social distancing up until that point. My 3yo son was so unbelievably happy when he saw them that literally it brings tears to my eyes typing this. Call us all selfish, but honestly, I think until testing gets so much better that you can get a test whenever you want, people are going to be faced with tricky decisions like this. Especially because there is no real end in sight anytime soon. [/quote] Not shaming you but note you used the word luckily. And no one has gotten sick yet. I hope it remains that way as there are many asymptomatic carriers out there. Glad I didn't have to make the decision you did. I don't think it was selfish. Selfish is beach week.[/quote]
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