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[quote=Anonymous]Ignore or call out subtlety to friends to draw attention to? 
Close friend in group plays a lot of “social engineering” games, example , inviting all 6 ladies to the beach except me. Another example, creating an activity for everyone but one person and making a big show about why that one person is excluded and being judgemental about that person’s marriage. I have strong friendships with everyone in the group. She is friends on the surface level with everyone and closest with me and one other person. It has nothing to do with her not liking me or having issues with any of the other people, it seems like a control thing more than anything and wanting to assert that she is the ringleader at all times. She doesn’t have many friends outside of the group and it sounds like a few falling outs have occurred with other people she got close to in the past like this.  I’m a little fed up with the games but haven’t been in a situation like this in decades so not sure the best way to deal with someone like this without rocking the boat. [/quote]

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