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[quote=Anonymous]I have two daughters age 12 and 9. Their relationship is very competitive, often contentious and yet they also get along well sometimes. We have been having this repeated issue with new clothes. Older DD does not want me to buy younger DD anything that is the same as what she is buying. I get not wanting to match your sister, but some of the stuff is trendy/popular basics and it seems silly to tell younger DD she can’t have them. Like solid color running shorts. Or a camo T-shirt, or solid tank tops. Or a certain style of flip flops, etc. What is the fair way to decide who gets what? Both girls like the popular trendy stuff so I don’t know what to do. Do I tell younger DD sorry your sister already picked that? Is that fair to younger? (PS, younger DD wears any good condition hand me downs happily, but we usually have gaps to fill in, plus I like her to get a few new things.)[/quote]
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