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[quote=Anonymous]I think it's very strange that you haven't met the man who's spending so much time with your kids. If he lives with your ex and kids or stays the night then meeting and vetting him is way past due.

Honestly, your current wife sounds like she has some issues with your ex and kids. She must have known you had an ex and kids when you married her. It sounds like she's competing with them.

This whole dynamic seems really off. You're so far removed form your kids' lives that you don't even know the man who's spending so much time with them, and your current wife begrudges you doing the bare minimum of your parental duty to try to get to know him.

Stick to your instincts and meet this guy. If your relationship with your ex needs any repairing for you to get more involved in your kids' day to day lives, then do that. You don't want to wake up one day and wonder why your relationship with your grown kids is so distant and you barely know your grandkids. This is how it happens, by not being involved enough when they're growing up. You're setting the foundation for your relationships with them for the rest of your lives. [/quote]

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