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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We curse in other areas of our lives. Never at or about each other. But we never curse when arguing. It just adds gas to a slow or raging fire. It’s not necessary. Even saying “what the f*ck?” can turn up the heat. When arguing, you should be trying to find ways to deescalate.

Regardless of what we the internet thinks, the person you love who wants to have an emotional connection to you is asking you to stop. Is this the hill you want to die on?[/quote]

This.   [b]But also, we can't be perfect.[/b]  Not you, not your wife.  Not me or my husband.   Try your best.  Tell her ahead of time you might need to leave to calm down a bit if she doesn't want you to curse.   There has to be give and take here.  [/quote]

Thank you, reasonable person! OP here. I sure DO try my best. But sounds like everyone else here is always able to 100% change whatever it is they were doing, every single time “a person you care about and have emotional connection to” tells them they don’t like something. I’d very surprised if that was actually true in practice. But thank you for your replies nonetheless. [/quote]

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