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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]guy here.  I have two pictures I can use.  One shows me on top of the Tetons (not mentioning I took the tram and am gasping for oxygen), and the other shows me sitting on the couch scratching my balls.  Which one do you think I am going to use?  I certainly spend a lot more time on couch than the Tetons.

The same thing applies to women:  don't show yourself at Nat's park if you have gone there once.  I am going to assume that is your happy place, and picture a life where we watch baseball together either in person on on the sofa (I got balls to scratch) for 162 games per year (181 last year).  I would expect you would grasp the goal of scheduling vacations around road trips (Coors field and ATT Park are nice starting points).  But then you do not even know the significance of 6-4-3.   Or know what I am talking about with that wonder Oct 30th clang.

It goes both ways.  When I find out your idea of entertainment  is TCM and not MASN.....[/quote]

OP here and I get there may be some snarkery in there but I don't think you are being unreasonable.

Of course our pictures are not going to be 100% accurate, otherwise they'd all be pictures of us in our office, our bedroom, or our kitchen, or stuck in traffic. The idea is that you show who you are when it's your choice to express yourself. I'd like pictures to tell me: What do I choose to do with the discretionary time I have, and what will my partner and I be spending weekends doing?

I'm not going to post pictures of myself at a Nats game, since I have no idea what it is you are talking about. Likewise, if it's a 75 degree day out and you are in the basement playing Minecraft, maybe take some screenshots of your playing Minecraft, or however that's done. Don't show me pictures of yourself on the beach or in the mountains because I'm going to want to drag you out of your man cave and go explore an actual cave. The idea is to be upfront about what kind of life you want to have with your girlfriend. Not: show pictures of yourself that make you look like a fun person that girls would like, only to complain that a girl is too high-maintenance because they actually want to go out and do things. [/quote]

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