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Reply to "Can someone explain the mindset of someone who gets cheated on and stays?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don't judge. You really don't know what other people value in a relationship. For some people it's a dealbreaker, while for others it just isn't. Not your relationship, not your problem. [/quote] +1. I stayed with a cheater who was a broken man, deeply traumatized in childhood. He was remorseful, went to therapy (individually, couples, and sexual addiction anonymous), and everything else I asked for - open electronics, medical tests, disclosure, financial, and legal). He agreed to polygraphs, but I didn’t ask for that. He is a great partner, and years later I am very happy with him. The cheating was painful and forced me to evaluate my codependency and childhood trauma issues. We have an incredibly strong bond healing through the pain and rebuilding trust together. I know all his secrets and demons and can love him knowing his flaws. He’s grateful I gave him a chance and shows his gratitude- he’s loving, kind, and generous. [/quote]
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