Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Parenting -- Special Concerns
Reply to "Need ideas on how to quickly change the subject from adoption"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]People ask all sorts of questions when something is different. And although you say its her story to tell or not, its actually not. Its obvious that she is adopted, so its not like she can hide it. Also, she doesn't know the story - you do. [/quote] My child looks exactly like me. It is a striking resemblance. Random people do not feel it is polite to say to me, "we are trying to conceive and it's just not working. She is obviously your daughter. Can I ask what position you and DH used when you had sex? Did you use in vitro? What time of the month did you have sex? How painful was the birth?" Do you see where I am going with this? If you see someone in a wheelchair, do you feel it is ok to ask them why just because it is obvious and you are curious? When you see gay couples, do you ask about their sex life? People need to mind their own business. Adoptees are not public property. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
