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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why are you engaging with her? She will reach out if she needs anything.[/quote] This. She sounds a little like my sister, but I stopped contacting her a long time ago and frankly I am the one not responding to her attempts because I am sick of being used.You are too enmeshed even though you say you are detached. If someone doesn't respond to you, you stop contacting them. If she reaches out whenever she needs something, you have a CHOICE whether to help. It took me a long time to realize that. I got burned out and realized she will always find people to take advantage of. Sure enough she just uses neighbors, "friends" (doesn't have real friends-just people she uses until they burn out) and other family. You need to truly detach. Stop contacting her and you decide how you want to engage with her when she reaches out, but expect nothing in return. [/quote]
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