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[quote=Anonymous]Same same. It definitely comes from growing up with that kind of dynamic. My FIL was a distinguished doctor but could not function without MIL. All he could do was his job. Couldn't cook, had no idea of finances, like had no idea where he had a bank account or credit cards or how to file taxes. MIL would give him a credit card, he'd use it and she'd take care of the rest. DH isn't quite that bad but he expects me to be his assistant in every way. Like the other day, he had to submit a form to get paid for some independent consulting work he did (he has a salaried job, this was just a side thing). He wanted me to do it -- it "looked too complicated". Like basically it had too many words on it, so he threw up his hands and called his wife. Dude, there were a lot of words because there were explicit instructions and explanations for each section to be filled out. It was the simplest thing imaginable. You're right, it is unattractive. [/quote]
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