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[quote=Anonymous]Just a vent more than anything …

My oldest sister has never been an easy person to deal with.  A know-it-all, hyper critical, jealous, meddling and manipulative.   Has interfered in many people's relationships and does so with glee.  Pits one person against the other and then backstabs them both.   Relishes in watching the fallout of her actions because fundamentally she is a sick individual who is rabidly jealous of anyone who has something she doesn't.  Has not been in a relationship for more than 30 years and has become a vindictive nasty woman who hates to see others happy.   She lives alone and is also a moderate hoarder.

One way she manipulates is that she will not call anyone else in the family, she expects us all to call her.  Even if we do, she PURPOSELY lets it go into voicemail just so she can be in "control" of when she decides to talk to you.

I'm done with her toxic games and have been disengaging for awhile now.  But since I live closest to her I do still text her from time to time to keep in touch - essentially just to make sure she's still alive.  But now she does the same thing with texts - won't answer them.  (If she wants something from anyone else, then she has no problem texting and expects an answer within minutes.)

She has several health issues, lives alone in filth, and is stubborn about being "told what to do."  I can only imagine she is out flauting social distancing and doing whatever she wants.

Now with covid, she refuses to reach out to people and doesn't answer/respond when trying to contact her.  I sent her a text three days ago asking her a rather important question and she has not responded.  I told my DH tonight that she will probably wind up dead, rotting in her bed for weeks before anyone knows.  So be it.  [/quote]

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