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[quote=Anonymous]I’d just wait it out until she leaves for college. If marriage is your intention then get married the year after she goes to college. Why the rush? As for family time on your boyfriend’s custody time, give up on that and invite your BF to spend time with your kids at your house when he doesn’t have custody. Do you have 50% custody? My friend lives with her 2nd husband and her kids when she has custody in an Apt in the City. When it’s her DH’s custody time with the kids then he lives with his kids (not her or her kids) in a house in the burbs near his Ex-wife. Maybe something like that would work for you if you. My gut instinct is the DD is immature, doesn’t think your good enough for her Dad (she has taken on sort of the hostess/wife role in his house) and resents you for trying to ruin that and/or thinks she’ll become the built in babysitter for your kids if you have “family” time. Does DD cook? Do the laundry? Or otherwise has taken on hostess duties at her Dad’s house?[/quote]
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