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[quote=Anonymous]Am struggling with trust and intrusive thoughts of spouse's choices and actions--esp spouse's physical consummation--with other people. (Am seeing therapist. Spouse is going to see therapist. Spouse wants to stay 'together'. Spouse says did not think ever would have told me. I found out 100% by accident. Spouse has since shared some--spouse insists all--social media accounts. Every reveal from spouse since has been forced bcs spouse 'forgot' to mention or proactively tell me about A, B, C or that x, y, z happened. Therapist insists I need to admit to myself that I am still in 'open-marriage' even if spouse insists otherwise. Therapist also insists I think about what I want, irrespective of spouse. I am not ready to walk away from marriage w my spouse. Am not withholding sex or tears or questions and have not asked spouse to move out. We have two younger-teen kids.) Thank you in advance[/quote]
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