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Reply to "If your spouse lost all interest in sex, could you stay married?"
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[quote=Anonymous] I think having a talk with her to let her know that this is a serious concern for you and that you should go to a marriage/sex counselor. I don’t think that she believes that this is that important to you and so the key is to make sure she knows this is important to you. If you are happy otherwise in your marriage, this means that she is willing to listen to you in general and so if she doesn’t, it’s a communication issue. Also, this will require both of you to negotiate. I often hear men on here say that they want a solution but then any solution that’s proposed is then shot down (e.g. scheduling sex or not showing enthusiasm means they are not loved). Also, how strong are you as a person? Do you know that you are loved and are attractive or do you need sex to validate that sense of self? Finally, kudos to you for not considering cheating as an option since that is what will be suggested on here. I applaud you for wanting to do the right thing.[/quote]
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