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[quote=Anonymous]Ask your DH to add you to the deed. In DC, this can be done with a 1-page form and has no impact on your mortgage or taxes (if you are married). If he refuses, push him for a reason, a real one. If he still refuses, then counseling. This is a weird power play on his part, and an ineffective one. As others have said, in the event of divorce, you would likely get 1/2 anyway. In my case, DH owned the house before we were together. He refused to put me on the deed after marriage, even though we were both paying equally for the mortgage. Then, he lost his job, which was the impetus for us to finally combine our finances (because I was supporting both of us), and I made adding my name to the deed a non-negotiable part of that. Doesn't help you, because your situation is different, but I have been where you are and I get what you are feeling.[/quote]
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