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[quote=Anonymous]Married 7 years and I started house hunting alone. Took almost a year to finally find the perfect home. Price, size, location etc..  A year into our marriage he told me when we buy the next home my name would be on it too.  Well DH put the home in his name only.  Of course he said he never told me that. Ugh I should’ve recorded the conversation.  I don’t work so of course I didn’t put a penny into the house except for 50 hrs a week of design work because he wants nothing to do with that part .  Anyhoo, my attitude is whatever but my issue is I can’t bring myself to refer to this house as mine or ours. I always say things like, “I’ll meet you at THE house” , “I’ll be at THE house shortly”..   And boy, when Ive referred  to the house as yours or his OMG he gets so angry with me!  I really have to bite my tongue at times.  Meanwhile I have numerous  girlfriends in the same exact situation as me but they have no problem with this and refer to their home as theirs, mine , ours..  Why am I so sensitive and they’re fine?  Imo we’re all basically tenants.  And yes, my circle of friends are mostly wealthy 2nd marriages. [/quote]

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