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[quote=Anonymous]My best friend (single) was in a relationship with someone who is married. She ended it when she realized finally that his promises to leave his wife were empty. He would tell her I am leaving on x date, then delay, etc. Now in hindsight she doesn't believe that it was his first affair, and she's been approached by another woman he had affair with after her. They compared stories and he said the same stuff to both. Friend blocked him on social media and phone, and she ignores his attempts, but he has tried consistently to contact her to rekindle things in the 2 years since she broke up with him.

Friend had decided telling the wife would do more harm than good, but she's changed her mind. Others are advising her that they'd want to do if their SO was doing this, and she really wants to prevent other women from being taken in by this guy. He's probably been doing this for a long time with many.

Now she's deciding on the how. She saved all of his texts and I'm wondering is she should share any with the wife. It would be painful, but then she'd have evidence and he can't simply deny. This man was sending her photos of his kids (including a very SN child) referring to them as my friend's future stepkids, etc.

It's horrible but I think I'd want to know if DH was doing this. So I'm thinking she should probably print some of these texts, write the woman a letter, and hand-deliver it to her, then walk away (not talk it over). They don't know each other but friend knows where she lives and enough of her routine, she could easily find her.[/quote]

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