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[quote=Anonymous]Cheaters cheat. So, unless you have taken real steps to improve yourself through therapy, and he has, too, of course you are worried that it could happen again. Just saying you would never do it again doesn't make it so. You need to figure out why you thought it was ok to cheat on your ex, instead of first ending the relationship. I also think it's kind of a "wayward" mindset to say that your marriage did not end due to the affair. When you had an affair, you betrayed your spouse. Most people in an affair start to villainize their spouse, blame marriage issues for the cheating, etc. - all of that makes the marriage more difficult. Maybe you would have divorced anyway, but no way was the cheating a non-factor.[/quote]
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