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[quote=Anonymous]My parents despaired that I was an old maid.  I was 34 when I got married, but in my culture, if you are 26 and not married, you are an old maid. And I was not even in a serious relationship.  Why? Because I wanted to be dam* sure I was ready for marriage and found the right person to be with. I *never* thought about having kids. I am not a kid person. IMO, that's a personality  thing.  But, after getting married to the right person, we now have two kids.

As for the 20   something yr old son, he is disinterested in a serious relationship more than likely rather than "dating".  Maybe he needs time to mature a bit. Many men are still pretty immature at 20 something.

They probably don't tell you everything about their "relationships" because they  know how you feel, and they don't want to get into it with you.

They may never have kids or get married, and it may suck for you, but if that is not what they want, then you have to just accept it, and don't push it because that will just push them away and annoy them.  Believe me, I know how that feels.
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