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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op.

I love him. We have two amazing kids. He is the one. Just sometimes he drives me insane and
[b]He knows and he is doing it on purpose[/b] and that aggregates me. Obviously I am
Not going on to murder him, I love him. I just wish he would [b]get this episodes under control and not behave like a he his failing to appreciate me on purpose[/b]. I am a “can’t we just get a along kind of person” and he is a not that. 
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Here's the thing -- the person you describe doesn't respect you.  And yet, you say you love him.  Love is a choice.  Why would you choose to love someone who disrespects you?  What are you modeling for your kids that you are in a relationship where your partner disrespects you and yet you stay, even more you say you stay because you "love" him.  Is that how you would hope your kids would handle someone who is disrespectful or abusive -- stay because he is the "one"?

I teach my kids that there is no "one".  There are a number of people in life who we will "click" with.  Your job in life is to go out there and find them.  If they are kind and reliable, then you make them part of your circle.  Some will be friends.  Others will be lovers.  But, the one you marry has to be so much more than that -- they have to click with you, be respectful of you, support you, appreciate you, have similar goals, etc.  Everyone has their flaws, so a mate doesn't have to be perfect, but disrespect is not just a flaw, it's a fatal error. [/quote]

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