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[quote=Anonymous]DH and I have been in a bad spot for several months. We were invited to a wedding in Costa Rica that we were originally not going to attend, citing not being able to get childcare for the kids (family lives far). But in January DH decided he wanted to go right before the RSVP deadline. It is now in a few weeks. I just...really do not want to go. I don't feel connected to him at all anymore, we don't speak much at home and don't spend much time together at home or outside it. I think in his mind these day-to-day, week-to-week interactions we had previously are not as big a deal as say, spending a weekend at a wedding or time away from kids/work etc, in order to connect/re-connect when we are able. And I guess I am different -- I feel like without the in-between we are just roommates.

Part of me thinks I just need to be honest about this with him and express what I'm feeling about not wanting to go and why. But I know that could cause a more significant rift between us. So another part of me thinks I need to suck it up and go. Yesterday I nearly had a panic attack spiraling about our issues and thinking about why I don't want to go on a trip with him and what that means for us. I am not sure what to do.[/quote]

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