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[quote=Anonymous]I am in an unhappy marriage. I've posted about this already and really the solution is just to wait it out until kids are older. Husband has even made comments that we are just staying until the youngest goes to college. We are no longer intimate, it's been about a year. I don't want to dive into WHY we are waiting it out. That's a whole topic in itself but I have looked at all options and it's what is best for us.

So the result is, I am lonely. I focus on kids but really, there is no adult conversation after they are in bed. No sharing of dreams, passions, etc.. All that is dead now.

There is someone at work who I cannot get out of my mind. We have been back and forth communicating. We don't always see each other because of remote work but it's just been this nice calm connection with a nice man that I haven't had in such a long time and certainly don't get it at home. We get along well and I think that perhaps he may be slightly interested. Granted he is divorced and I perceive he thinks I am too. I barely ever mention husband and often don't wear my wedding rings because it's a loveless marriage. Most people are surprised when they hear I am married and have assumed that i'm a single parent.

I mentioned today that I am married and I saw that he quickly ended the conversation. He seems like such a great guy and someone that was actually interested in me. Something I haven't had in years. I'm so beyond lonely and only getting older. By the time these kids are gone, I'll be this old bat.  I know I shouldn't and he probably wouldn't even want to anyway because who wants to be a cheater or the other man?

But...I looked him up on on FB after the conversation ended and while I have seen him many times in person and know he looks good...damn he is gorgeous. His FB is really just this nice guy. Dad with professional career who does crafts/builds things on the side etc.. sigh..someone who just enjoys life rather than so focused on money like my husband is and I guess someone who actually sees me.

Please talk me off the ledge.
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