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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again - I would also like to add that while old at this point, I think I do bring a lot. I have always been very attractive to men and still seem to be. I am fit, smart, good career, fun to be around, kind/good person etc. I def think I can repartner, just not sure about the potential for a future family. [/quote]

Even with your pluses, you can't predict how long it would be before you are with a partner AND at a stage in the relationship where he is ready for kids. Just finding a partner isn't enough; he has to be at the point where he is ready and willing to parent with you whether the kid is yours and ex's or your and his. You could spend more time than you think just dating to try to find THE partner/husband who wants kids at all. Then add on the time to develop the relationship to the point you're talking about kids. By that point it may be getting very late for you to safely and successfully carry a baby--yes, even if you're in great shape now and then too. But you know this.

OP, please consider getting to a counselor or therapist ASAP to talk with an objective professional, to help you weigh whether you should have a child on your own sooner rather than waiting to find a partner later. You want to be sure you don't move too fast on partnering up just to move forward with having a child. You also want to be very intentional and know what will be involved if you choose single parenthood. [/quote]

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