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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They do go to the same school but don't have any classes or ec's together.  I do plan to request that they don't have any classes together next year,
She has blocked him but we found out about this from another source.

he responded to her saying he will not contact her or post her pictures,  hopefully, it stays that way. 
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I'm the PP who asked if they are at the same school. You are right to tell the school they should not be in classes together next year. Do it in writing and be sure to send copies to both the counselor's odffce and the principal's office. Take care that it does not appear you're accusing the boy of anything (he isn't stalking or harassing her at this point, correct?). But do point out that your DD's ability to focus on school will be negatively affected if they share classes. Ask to be contacted if the schedule somehow ends up with them placed in a class together (sometimes schools don't have multiple choices of class periods for certain required classes so yes, he and she could end up assigned to the same class).

Summer will provide a useful "reset" period when they aren't even passing in the hallways, and that could help cool down the emotions. Be sure DD has plenty to do this spring and summer--activities and friends (preferably not guy-crazy friends who will want to hash over what happened etc.) can help her.[/quote]

OMG it is not up to the school guidance office to handle OP's daughter's social life!   Can you imagine in EVERY student had a parent trying to dictate who their kid couldn't have classes with?
This is not their job!    Your daughter needs to tell him to knock it off.  [b] If he persists, your husband needs to have a talk with the boy's dad.[/b][/quote]

[b]Ah, yes, let’s add another layer of toxic masculinity! 
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OP, I think you should monitor this; if the ex-boyfriend continues to leave her alone (in person and on social media), I don’t think you need to ask that they be separated next year. But if he violates her request, I would get the school involved. The fact that he was seeking to hook-up with other people while dating her and then posts about her on Valentine’s Day after she’s broken up with him is a red-flag to me—very manipulative/controlling.

(I have two teen/tween boys, btw.)[/quote]

Ah yes, playing the old "all males are evil" card!  Once I see that, there's no need to read the rest of your post, everything you say is obviously pure garbage![/quote]

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