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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow. Your contempt for his wife is overflowing. My guess is that he sought out a partner with whom he felt some familiarity from his childhood. [/quote]

Possibly but that makes no sense.  Why would someone seek out a partner who hates him?!   Whether or not I hated my brother as a child shouldn’t have any bearing on his future wife.   And yes I find my brother very annoying.  No hatred there but I would never be short with him or deride him to his face.  [/quote]

Do you have to rely on your brother 24/7/365 for running a household, raising young children, maintaining a property and cars, scheduling things, doing what he said he’d do?

No you don’t. But try to imagine he was your life partner with actual responsibilities. The days of eat, office, eat, tv are long gone. He may be very overwhelmed but not know it, just lash out or get depressed or anxious.

And not having personal friends, hobbies or interests is not healthy for anyone.

Was your father or mother or both the same way? Homebodies, few friends or social things, same routine all the time, each season? These things are genetic you know.[/quote]

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