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[quote=Anonymous]I have posted before. You might recognize me. I got married at 29 to an aspiring academic. I followed him around for 5 years, moving every year, until he finally got a tenure-track job. During this time he refused to start a family. Like an idiot I did not leave when I was 32/33 like I should have. I am now 35 and we have been trying for over a year. I have had 1 eptopic pregnacy, one miscarriage at 11 weeks, and 3 chemical pregnancies. Just had another this weekend. I honestly am at peace if I can't have kids (obviously divorcing him now at 35 makes that unlikely given the issues I've been having especially), but I just can't forgive him knowing that he put his own priorities ahead of mine for years. I made all of the sacrifices for the life he wanted, and I just can't do that anymore.

Anyway, I haven't told anyone yet. I am afraid. But I think I came to the end. I will refinance the house in my own name and start over. I have a good job, and I'll go about living the life that I want to live now. I am just so mad at myself for shortchanging myself so much in earlier years.

I don't have a question, but I wanted to write this here because I needed to share with someone. I will share with friends and family when I feel ready. Thanks for listening. [/quote]

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