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[quote=Anonymous]OP you've got some good advice here. I'd also like to say that I had a good friend do this to me--it's been 17 years, now...and part of what is going on is you want closure ("what did I do?") and you are not going to get it. When you decide that you really WANT closure but in truth, don't NEED closure, then you can start to move on. Yes you should decline work with her, absolutely. I'd get rid of her on all social media. Write down her contact info and then delete it from your phone and email, so it doesn't pop up sometime when you are looking for someone else. In this way, you create the closure, so you take control, so you stop waiting for it from her. The waiting causes the anxiety. And bottom line, let's say she calls you back up and wants to fix it. NO. She did that to you once so she can do it again. So that is why you have to decide it doesn't matter, the relationship is lost. So shut it down, OP.[/quote]
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