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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]“We’d love yo get together with you but I am not willing to see X.”

If you say it the right way, she may not ask why, but if she does, then you say “we had a falling out.”  No elaboration, let it sit there.  Most people will not ask a second time.  They’ve asked their one question and know pushing for more is rude.  If she pushes, then standard, “it’s not worth going into; or, I don’t want to go into it further; etc”. She will wonder, but you can just ignore.[/quote]

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This sounds good in theory, until the person is who inviting you unknowingly asks your ex-AP what on earth happened. Then it will be in your ex-APs hands, who might very well put you.

I agree with the stomach virus posters. [/quote]

NP - I'm not doing all that.  All that hiding, running, panicking, and pretending; way too much work for me.  I'd rather just be straight up and say I don't want to have dinner with him.  If the old friend gets curious and asks the ex-AP, so what?  What's the repercussions, gossip?  Hmph... :roll:  I'm not in high school anymore damned if I'm gonna be pressured by the fear of gossip into putting on some grandiose performance for people who aren't central figures in my life and I don't even interact with on a daily basis.     [/quote]

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