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[quote=Anonymous]Agree with therapist if they mean that as a first step. The next step is for your husband to challenge/reframe/inhibit those thoughts, because if he is calling you a "loser" in his head, that will affect the way he feels and treats you. Thoughts affect feelings and behaviors. That's basic CBT. Ask your therapist to explain it more. If the plan ends at "ok to call you a loser in his head all the time", you might need someone else.[/quote]
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