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[quote=Anonymous]I wasn't super religious, but one of the things I did hold close was the idea of waiting until I was married to have sex. I can't tell you how many women thought I was gay or assumed I had AIDS. I got cheated on by those who couldn't wait, and some kindly told me they weren't interested in a sex-free relationship. I ended up caving and having sex. Years later I met the woman who would become my wife. We both shared a history of failing at waiting, so we decided that we wouldn't do it unless the relationship led to marriage. We were successful, but the sex was terrible. Of course I couldn't say that to her. She had more partners than I did, so it wasn't inexperience. We just weren't sexually compatible in terms of skill, variety, or frequency. It never occurred to me that it might be an issue. We divorced ten years later. I would never suggest anyone wait unless they're a virgin and have no previous partners to use as a reference. [/quote]
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