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Reply to "How can I convince my husband it's ok to gift away gifts we received that we don't use?"
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[quote=Anonymous]You can also include those items in some sort of negotiations /exchange. There is always some area in the marriage that requires some sacrifices on each side. Play it right and you can get rid of some of those things as a trading chip. Just plan wisely and play them against something big. If he has his way with everything then this is bad. You should have a say too. Example.. If you have 10 year old sofa or chair that he likes and you don't care about either way, you say, okay the sofa is old, we need a new sofa. He goes.. what's wrong with this one, I love it, it stays. You go.. okay then let's negotiate.. If you want to keep this sofa, I can settle for removing half of the gift junk. He goes.. no, sofa stay, junk stay. You go: well, that is not an equal marriage. If it is to work then we both need to compromise and meet each other half way.. I will give you too keep sofa.. you need to give me something.. :lol: [/quote]
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