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[quote=Anonymous]I was at a coffee shop the other day and a woman chatted me up as I was leaving. She saw that was studying for the lsat and she mentioned that she’s studying for the bar. We started talking and had what seemed like a good rapport. I told her was going to see the movie ‘Just Mercy’, and I asked if she wanted to go see it.  She asked if she and I were the only POC at bookclub.  I told her yes, with the exception of a graduate student, but it’s a hit or miss with her.  It was a bookclub event and we both have a passion for activism and are POC, I thought she would like to go. She seemed really excited about it and we exchanged contact after she told me that if I ever have any questions to reach out to her. She also mentioned what days she’s in the coffee shop studying and told me that if I ever want to meet up and help motivate each other study, to text her. Well, I told her I go to the same coffee shop as a change of pace but I’m usually at the library but I’d be happy to meet up. The next day I went to the coffee shop and studied but I left early due to a doctors appt. She had made it a point to say that she would introduce me to various people she knows and that I’d be perfect for the firm she works at, as she can see I have a lot of passion for advocacy and they are always looking for POC. I admitted to her I’m interested in education law due to a personal reason and told her I have a learning disability that was not found until college and I want to help others so they know their rights. Anyways, I didn’t meet up the other days to study at coffee shop because I went to the library. The day of the event she texted me to say that she couldn’t make it. I asked if she still wanted to meet up once in a while like we planned and then told her if she’s ever interested in attending bookclub to let me know, as it’s a great group of ladies. Well, it’s been crickets with her. I’m not sure what happened. I’m not going to text her again. I’m just baffled by her behavior.

I was pleasantly surprised by how encouraging she was and I was thankful for her support but I’m so baffled now by her behavior. [/quote]

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