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[quote=Anonymous]My mother has been in a verbally/emotional abusive marriage with my father for 30 years. She is still in this marriage and my father is still abusive. As his daughter, I got my fair share of abuse. I left for college for a couple of years and I’ve moved back to my parents. I’m living temporarily until I save up and get my place.

The issue is my father constantly criticizes me, puts me down, calls me names, etc. I honestly feel hurt at times, but I never reply to his abuse and carry on with the day. A few days ago, he was mad at me and started verbally abusing me. However, he was so angry and he tried to scare me as if he was going to hit me. I was shocked so I yelled at him then muttered a few swear words at him. He looked upset, then started putting me down and then left to go out.

Since he returned, he never spoke to me. Its been approx 4 days since our fight and he’s avoiding me. He looks hurt and just ignores me. This has never happened before.

I don’t get it. He’s been verbally abusing me for years and I never reply or fight back. Now, I get angry at him one time and mutter swear words under my breath and he can’t take it.

How do I get him to stop ignoring me? Why is he acting like this?[/quote]

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