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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve been dating my boyfriend since August of 2016. He owns a home, and I rent. I have been wanting to move in together. He says his goal is for us to own a home together ‘one day’, but that he’s not willing to sell his current home. Which I completely understand, and am not asking him to do. After some pressure on my end, he says he will try and rent his home out so we can live together. But  then there is always something that’s comes up. He wants to renovate x, y, z first...he says there’s not enough room in my house for his things, etc etc.

He says he wants to marry me one day. He has started staying at my house every day and night. He asks me, why isn’t this enough? Why do I need him to also give up his house? I told him that I want to save money on expenses, so that we can have our own home together one day. Right now, there’s absolutely no way to save that kind of money living separately. He thinks I’m pressuring him and need to give him more time. I think that it’s been 3.5 years, and that’s long enough to figure things out. Am I in the wrong here? [/quote]

I'm confused. Why can't you move in with him into the house he currently owns?

I'd cut your losses and move on. There's something very odd here. [/quote]

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