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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Every time the OW is discussed on here, it's assumed that she's:  single, duped by her AP into believing he's unhappy at home when he's actually getting tons of sex, and pining/waiting to be with him long-term.

I wonder what percentage of affairs actually fit this description.  Certainly NONE of the ones I'm aware of, including my own.  Usually the OW is also married, indifferent to his home life, and wants to stay in her own marriage if only for her kids.[/quote]
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Another +1.  I just popped in to say just this.  I don’t know any single woman AP who wants the guy in the long run.  The women I know are married themselves and are looking for something they’re not getting in their marriages, not to replace their husbands.[/quote]

I know someone like this... going on right now. She is single, never married, no kids. She is super smitten at him (I have no idea why, he's really nothing special). He's never going to leave his wife. Told her the usual sob story - he married his wife too young (college sweethearts), no passion, no sex, nothing in common anymore, she's let herself go, he can't leave because she can't function without him, etc etc. My friend is a highly educated and accomplished person and I can't believe she bought any of that BS.  [/quote]

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