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[quote=Anonymous]You can’t do this without a lawyer. I’m familiar with war zone money, so it can be a tricky thing - it’s more like a bonus and not long term increase in income, so future support does need to be based on his actual/current income going forward. If you push to have payments made on last year’s money, he can just go back to court the have adjustment made on his new lower income. I would focus on getting an assurance that when he goes to his next hardship post you get increased support to make up for hiring additional help when he can’t do his share of the custody. But here’s the practical thing. If you are willing to,live under the same roof until his next deployment (it’s not clear if you were opposed to that) I wouldnt get divorced until after that deployment so that he gets the separation allowance (presuming next post is another hardship/no dependents post). If it is a family post, then yes, divorce now and you get the 50/50 split with one party buying out the other on the house. [/quote]
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