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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What he's proposing is not fair - it's meant to financially punish you for wanting to divorce. Get a lawyer and do everything by the book.[/quote] How is he screwing her? She wants more than 50%. They split everything equally including selling or buying out the other person with the house and done. He gets 50% time share when he's in the US or where ever he lives and pays child support if he makes more and when he's not in the country its adjusted for the time share change with Mom having more. She makes it sound like she wants child support and alimony despite she is working so she doesn't need alimony and more than 1/2 the assets especially the house.[/quote] He wants to backdate the separation date to exclude her from the recent higher HHI. That's not fair. He also wants to divorce but keep her in the house where she will do all the childcare (gets called a bad parent when she leaves them with him). So he wants to get the financial benefit of divorcing, and lying about the date of separation, with no intention of watching his kids half the time until he leaves for another tour when it will be 100% on her, again. Nowhere in her post did she mention wanting more than 50% or the word alimony. You're projecting baggage that isn't there, and misreading the OP to do so.[/quote]
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