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[quote=Anonymous]This is a long-standing issue in your marriage, not an issue of this one day (when yes, it’s more important than usual for you to be on time). So he’s reacting to the long-standing issue, not the one day. You can try “look, I know I’m unreasonable about this generally, but fir this one day I really need you to just help me do it my way.” But if you haven’t really worked on getting better generally, it’s going to be hard to succeed with that line. Also, this is your sibling’s wedding, and you “have to” get ready first (early) so you can help your SIL? Suggests this is your brother’s wedding. Your SIL, the bride, should have plenty of other people to help her get ready - her mother, her sister if she has one, her best friends. This does not all rest on you, and if you’re still getting ready at the same time as SIL, that should be fine. That doesn’t mean you should be late to anything. But if “getting ready” is scheduled for 10am, you don’t need to already be all ready at 10 most likely.[/quote]
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